Sunday, August 17, 2008
Standed in Vegas Part 2
Once we got into DC we went straight to the Air and Space Museum in Chantilly. It was awesome. Neil was in heaven because he loves anything to do with flight and space. I took lots of pictures and will post them when we get back. Last night we went to bed early. It was wonderful to be able to take a shower and sleep in a bed! So we feel great after sleeping nearly 11 hours last night. I'm so glad to finally be in DC.
Friday, August 15, 2008
Stranded In Vegas
Thursday, August 14, 2008
To Simplify
Over the years I have learned that you must simplify things in your life in order to be content with life (I say this as if I’ve had many many years of experience—but what I can say, I am a quick learner). I feel sorry for some of the people that I admire the most because they seem to take on more than is necessary and much more than they can handle. It makes me feel even sadder that they are taking on so many good things. Because that isn’t bad in itself but can taking on too many good things be bad? I tend to feel extreme guilt if I am not doing EVERYTHING that I should be doing. Over the years, I have made the conscious decision that there is a time and a place for everything and I can’t do everything at the same time. For example, I often feel guilt that I am not the Martha Stewart wife for Neil. He doesn’t come home to a house filled with the smell of delicious homemade bread. He doesn’t come home to a 5-course meal waiting for him to savor. Instead, he comes home to a busy wife who works all day and rushes home to just get something on the table to eat. His laundry gets done but he may have to help fold it. I imagined being a wife like my mother. She got up at the crack up dawn to fix my Dad and kids breakfast. She packed up lunches for everyone. Plus, she had dinner on the table for my Dad when he got home from work with fresh baked bread. But I now realize that there is a time and place for everything. One day, Neil will have a lunch packed by me instead of the other way around (yes, he packs a lunch for me at least once a week).
I guess this all stems from the stress of trying to get everything done before we leave. But this morning, I woke up feeling stress free and calm. I got almost everything done that I needed to last night. And the things that I didn’t get done, well they will get done later. I am so grateful for Neil who mopped the kitchen floor last night even though he didn’t understand why it needed to be mopped since we were leaving. I am grateful that my mother volunteered to help organize the book I have to make for church. I hate to simplify my life and give my clutter to others. But, I suppose that because there is a time and a place for everything, perhaps someone else’s clutter will become a part of my life at some time.
Finally, to end on a less than contemplative note, I am excited to go on a vacation to Washington DC! I am looking forward to immersing myself in the history and culture of this great Nation. I am keeping my fingers crossed that our flights will go smoothly and that all will go well. I promise to take lots of pictures and only show the ones that I look at least half way decent in.
Monday, August 11, 2008
Not Again
To make matters worse, I paid Neil's fall tuition today too. And the University still managed to mess that up. I have to admit I love my job but I am embarrassed to work for such an incompetent institution.
Needless to say, I am feeling overwhelmed because I have a lot to get done at work this week. I have to help Neil get his school stuff wrapped up because we won't get back until right before school starts. My local church group has put me in charge of putting together a book all about emergency preparedness and food storage that is to be distributed to the entire Stake. The prototype is due the day after we get back. In which I've gathered information but I have not even begun to organize. I still don't know how I got signed up for that one. Plus, I need to get laundry done and pack my life up for 9 days. It is looking like I may need to stock up on some chocolate to make it through.
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Home.
There is just something about coming home after being away that makes me appreciate it that much more. I was only gone a day and half for a conference I helped with for work but it felt like a week. It was a fun mini trip to Ogden that consisted of a good time with a few of my fabulous co-workers, a free dinner at The Prairie Schooner, a nice room in a nice hotel and a change of pace from office work. But I missed being away from my sweet hubby. I missed my bed. I missed the luxurious space of my bathroom. I know you are thinking it was only one night. But I will tell you that it was absolutely wonderful to get home yesterday afternoon and be reunited with a hug and kiss from my sweetheart. Then I proceeded to do nothing but rest and relax. I even got into bed early just enjoy my bed.
In other news, I enjoyed the finale for So You Think You Can Dance. I did something I’ve never done for. I actually voted for someone. I’ve enjoyed watching reality shows but I’ve never actually participated. I thought it was a big step. Although, I may regret it because if the person I voted for doesn’t win then I will feel like my voting was wasted. I guess that is what makes it so “real” right?
Friday, August 1, 2008
Irrational Behavior
Why is it when you are having a bad day, things just get worse? Now, I am not having that bad of a day but I’ve certainly have had better. I will confess that I tend to have irrational behavior when my day isn’t going the way I planned. I can’t wait to go home and take it easy for a bit. In any case I may or may not have had an irrational moment at Les Schwab tires today. I needed to get my tires rotated. I love my car and I take impeccable care of it including as soon as I hit the 5,000 mile mark, I take it in and get my tires rotated. Fortunately, Les Schwab is just down the street from my work, so I decided it would be the most convenient for me to do it on my lunch hour. I hate running errands after work because I just want to get home and relax. I am also a meticulous planner. So first thing this morning I called to make sure I didn’t need to make an appointment. I was told no. I asked how long it would take. I was told 20-30 minutes. So I quickly ate my lunch today and drove to Les Schwab. I was immediately impressed that I was literally greeted at my car and helped right away. I asked again how long it would take (to make sure that they knew I would be keeping track). I was told once again 20-30 minutes. No seats were available so I end up sitting on a window sill waiting and waiting and waiting. Finally, when the 30 minutes were up and they hadn’t even taken my car in, I marched up to the desk and asked for my key back. The guy is puzzled. I told him I had waited 30 minutes and I had to get back to work. Then he quickly back peddles telling me that well it actually takes 35-40 minutes! Nothing irks me more than that kind of shenanigans (for lack of a better word). Then I was told the work actually only takes like 10 minutes and did I still have to get back to work? I said yes on principle. I did not have to get back to work immediately but I think that is lousy customer service. I was just told to come back later. It’s not like my ideal lunch is sitting in a smelly tire store with grease everywhere. The worst part of this irrational moment is now I have to go back.
Thursday, July 31, 2008
I broke down
I did it. I finally broke down. I ordered a copy of Breaking Dawn. I have no idea when it will arrive but I am expecting it much sooner than I could get it from the library. I had made up my mind that I wouldn’t purchase the book especially since I rarely read a book twice. And until I move into a bigger house, I don’t have space for my already large collection of books. So I have been depending on the local library. However, lately I have been getting more and more frustrated because the books I want to read seem to have long waiting lists. For example, months ago I placed a hold on Breaking Dawn but I ended up being number 75. So I figured I wouldn’t get it until December or next year. Now I see the hold list is up to 200! So I broke down. I ordered it online for a good price. I am justifying it because I will have a few long travel days coming up in which a good book will be necessary. I also don’t want anyone to spoil the ending for me. Plus, I am just fed up with the library.